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Finding solace in my ancestors

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This is a very difficult week. Witnessing police brutality and civil unrest layered on top of the fear, uncertainty and loss surrounding the global pandemic feels almost unbearable for me, and I am in a relatively comfortable situation of great safety.

Thanks to the most recent 30 x 30 challenge, at least I’m spending some focused and productive time on my genealogy research. That is a wonderful respite from the worry. One of the things I love most about genealogy research is learning about my ancestors’ lives and what they experienced. That feels particularly useful right now.

Going through this current time of difficulty (which for me in my privileged life has led to emotional, but not physical, pain) makes me feel even closer to my ancestors. When I research my Civil War soldier ancestors and their families, for instance, it’s hard to imagine what they went through. A country divided in war is virtually incomprehensible.

I don’t know how my ancestors who lived during that time bore the emotional pain and physical difficulties of the Civil War (as well as the Antebellum and Reconstruction eras). But those who survived did bear it. They had to. And I take strength in that.

Layered on top of all of this is the knowledge that systems of oppression benefited my white ancestors, even when their lives were difficult. This is particularly informative right now in the context of the civil unrest. I know these systems have benefited me as well, even if I don’t consciously participate in them.

I will continue with my daily genealogy research as I look for ways to feel less helpless and more useful right now. I am grateful for the solace it provides.

New 30 x 30 challenge starts June 1!

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One thing I’ve learned from all the time I’ve spent at home during this pandemic is that it isn’t a lack of time that prevents me from doing regular genealogy research. Apparently it’s a lack of accountability. So I’m declaring a new 30 x 30 challenge for June.

Will join me in committing to 30 minutes of genealogy research for 30 days in a row? Of course you can modify the challenge any way you want. But I’m looking to get into a groove of daily research, which was woefully lacking this month. I’m actually going back to working with organizing clients on June 1, but I won’t be so busy that I can’t insert 30 minutes of research into my daily routine.

If you’re in, please let me know in the comments. Here’s to a great research month!

Help your kids know your heirlooms’ stories

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A reader of this blog, Jacqueline Krieps Schattner, sent me a link to a post she wrote recently on her genealogy blog, Seeds to Tree, that described the decluttering she’s been doing during the pandemic (she’s used her time very well!). The blog post also presented an idea that I think is absolutely genius, so I asked her permission to write about it here (and also on the Peace of Mind Organizing blog).

Jacquie’s decluttering work during the pandemic has been very thorough. She got so much done that she turned her attention to an area that’s usually last on the list: the family treasures around her home. In her post, Pandemic De-Cluttering and a Heirloom Book, Jacquie described taking stock of some of the treasures she has collected over 40 years of marriage (and inherited from her parents and grandparents). She’s still enjoying them and has no interest in letting them go. But when she started thinking about what will happen to these heirlooms if she and her husband were to downsize or were not around to explain the significance of each piece, she came up with an important piece of wisdom:

Heirlooms without stories are just stuff.

Jacquie came up with a great idea for making sure her daughters would know the stories of the individual items. She created a book with photos of each of the heirlooms, complete with captions that capture all the stories. That way, when the time comes, her daughters will be able to make informed decisions about which of these heirlooms they would like to keep. She titled the book, Why Did We Save This?

Jacquie spells out in detail how she went about creating the book (via Shutterfly), what it looks like, and what she’s done with the copies. This is such a helpful idea that I’m thrilled to share it! Thanks for allowing me to write about it, Jacquie!

New ABC show: The Genetic Detective

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I’m excited to watch The Genetic Detective, on ABC, premiering a week from today, on May 26. (It was originally slated to premiere tonight.) This documentary program follows investigative genetic genealogist CeCe Moore, Chief Genetic Genealogist at Parabon NanoLabs in Virginia, as she works with law enforcement to solve tackle criminal cold cases using DNA. In the premiere, she tackles her first-ever cold case.

Here’s a video from the show’s Facebook page:

I’ve heard CeCe speak more than once at genealogy conferences and of course seen her on Finding Your Roots. She’s a dynamic speaker and obviously very knowledgeable.

She looks fascinating. I think it’s very cool to see a show about genetic genealogy–not just using DNA but traditional genealogy as well–in a prime-time slot on a major network!

Will you be watching?

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